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Is it possible to have a meaningful, fulfilling relationship so long as your partner isn't so hung up about love making performance and so forth that they spoil every encounter?
I am 27 with an average female libido and my 49 year old husband to be is always ready for intimate love. Don't get me wrong, we have fabulous love making...however if it were up to him we would have it 3+ times a day. I have tried everything to increase my own sexual desire including adult toys, fantasizing, female herbal pills, even a prescription from the doctor. We are to be married in less than 7 months and I am afraid this could be the one thing that splits us up. We are perfect for each other in every other way. 
I can't seem to sexually perform with my wife anymore. Her physical deterioration, the impact this is having on our sex life, I can't get ready for love making. I've been having an affair for 8 years and can be ready to perform every time she walks in the room. What will help me with this inhibited male dysfunction problem and want to perform with my wife again?
I really would be grateful if there was anyone out there who could give me some advice. My husband says it's not just that he doesn't fancy me anymore for intimate love activity, he doesn't fancy anyone (!) so I suspected he could do with some libido lifting supplements (zinc etc) for more drive, desire and confidence in himself. I bought him some, but he won't take them. Also he won't go to his doctor about his lack of desire for making love either.
My boyfriend is 54 and seems to have lost his self confidence after the occassional making love problem. I think he has now convinced himself he cannot achieve intimate readiness for love making. I was considering putting a viagra pill into his drink (I know he doesn't take any meds or have any health problems). The idea is to boost his confidence and self-esteem and help him overcome his percieved problem for intimate feelings. I'm trying to avoid the....
I am at a loss to know what we can do about his sexual performance problem. When we do finally make love he finishes before I can be satisfied.
We made love often, but now we aren't together anymore. Just recently, I couldn't get myself ready when I was with a girl, (happened more than once). I never had any problem with this before, so I assume its something psychological. Is their anything information I can get to ease the new self-consciousness?
He does not want or desire to make love but maybe every couple of months. If there is no underlying reason as to why he doesn't want to make love then she should make it her mission to raise his libido - tempt his taste buds so to speak. If it is just intimate love making that he is against, experiment with other forms of lovemaking together.
She says she is not unhapppy, doesn't want anyone else but just doesn't have the interest anymore for making love. It has now been six years since we have actually made love. She says it is more than likely that it is menopause that is causing it. The thing is that now I am starting to think about other women which is something I hadn't done up till now. I haven't been with another woman since ...
Up to 80 percent of men who drink beers heavily are believed to have serious sexual side effects, including impotence, sterility, male sexual performance anxiety, loss of sexual desire, libido and ....
I'm 59 years, wasn't having sex very often and I have been experiencing the following low testosterone symptoms.
Posted by kara111:
My boyfriend and I have not had sex in 7 months. I don't know what is wrong with him, he has no interest, libido or sexual desire in me. He was under some stress a few months ago. but things have been going fine for him since then. I can also rule out health problems. He says that he had the same problem with his past girlfriends which resulted in breakups. I can understand why. There is only so much I can take. I tried ignoring the issue and not talking to him about it anymore. I tried the sexy lingery, I tried everything, nothing happens. And sometimes he's ready for love making but says he does not feel like making intimate love. I am starting to get frustrated, I am only 23 and do know if I want to live the rest of my life without sex.
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