Got Frustrated When She Could Not Get Into It

My girlfriend and I were just about to have sensual love recently and I noticed she was too dry for sexual activity. I lost my arousal function momentarily and she told me she couldnt get into it because she was afraid of hurting me because I suffered a back injury that day. It was getting late she said she had to get some sleep for work. I became a bit frustrated because I did not achieve a finish. I would just like to know if my performance frustration is due to overactive testosterone. Continue to post...

Need Greater Response For His Intimate Passions

What's a girl with low sexual desire to do?

I am 27 with an average female libido and my 49 year old husband to be is always ready for intimate love. Don't get me wrong, we have fabulous love making...however if it were up to him we would have it 3+ times a day. I have tried everything to increase my own sexual desire including adult toys, fantasizing, female herbal pills, even a prescription from the doctor. We are to be married in less than 7 months and I am afraid this could be the one thing that splits us up. We are perfect for each other in every other way.
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The Cologne Evolution

Men should smell good. And I don't mean just good.

Men should smell reeeally good.

Aside from gym sessions, I think we should always strive to elicit double-takes from women solely based on our scent.

Work? Yup.

At home? Yup.

Weekends? Yup.

Out with friends? Of course.

Personally, I can think of two colognes that I have owned in the last ten or some odd years that have truly stood out among the rest in terms of double-takes and a bombardment of "excuse me, what cologne are you wearing?" encounters with the lady folk.

In college, it was Aqua Di Gio by Giorgio Armani. Since joining the professional world, it has been Polo Black by Ralph Lauren.

If you've ever smelled those two colognes, I think it's quite easy to realize my style. A bit sweeter and sportier -- as I've never been a rigid, or musty sort of guy.

But now my stock is running low, so I'm in search of the next great female-head-turning fragrance for dudes... and I think I just found it.

I was thumbing through the latest issue of Men's Health Magazine when I came across the advertisment for Gucci by Gucci.

Gentlemen, start your engines.

Gucci's latest spray-on sex appeal seems to be the natural progression in my cologne evolution. Still on the sweeter side, but even more refined than my trusty Polo Black.

The ad describes the cologne as such:

Gucci by Gucci Pour Homme combines classic masculine appeal with cool, contemporary elegance, and is inspired by the warmth and sensuality of incense.

I'm wondering... have you tried Gucci? If so, is it worth the cash?

Which colognes have you found to work the best?

What has been your cologne evolution?

Myths and Facts Surrounding Penis Enlargement

If you're a regular here at The Men's Health Blog, you might have noticed that I've added a link to Dr. Sheldon Marks' Men's Health Office under my blog roll.

I dig WebMD.

And I really dig this post on the myths and facts surrounding penis enlargement.

I don't know about you but I am fast growing tired of the dozens of spam e-mails I get every day about the magic new penis enlargement pill, cream or device. But it is not limited to these anonymous e-mails. Now I have to watch or listen to these same scams on major prime time TV shows and radio. What amazes me most is that these advertisements must be making money, or they wouldn't still be on the air week after week, month after month.

Here's the kicker - there is no truth or science behind any one of them. They are all pure and simple scams, designed to separate out the foolish from their money. Nothing more than snake oil salesmen, and sadly as educated as we are, we still remain gullible. Hey, if I could find a way to feel comfortable stealing money from people I might too jump in and offer "Sheldon's secret penile enlargement formula- but don't' wait, because organized medicine wants to shut me down, so order before midnight tonight and we'll throw in a free spray-on window tinter". And here is how they promote an age-old gimmick - now they call it male enhancement - kind of like a used car is now called pre-owned so they can charge more. If I sell my own secret formula, then I can lie but it is a new lie so it will take a few years for it to catch up to me and maybe by then I will have my millions hidden away in an off-shore Caribbean island. But my ethics gets in the way.

So many times people ask "why doesn't the government step in an stop these quacks from making outright lies and false claims?" The reason is simple - the supplement industry has worked very hard to keep the FDA out of the supplement market. This way, they can sell anything to anyone and they don't have to prove that it is effective, that it is even helpful or that it is even safe. So anyone with some money can create a fake treatment and sell it, making wild and extreme claims.

And what better way to trick people than playing to the secret wish of many men - to have a bigger penis? Because, after all, we know that men with bigger penises must be happier, more successful and have happier wives. And who will complain that his penis enlargement pill didn't work? I would guess very few men.

I like the good doctor's take on the subject, and will probably be linking to his work more often in the future.

If you've got a health blog and want me to add it to my blog roll, drop me a comment... unless you're trying to sell the sort of bogus supplements to which Dr. Marks was referring.

In that case, piss off.

Excuse my French.

Does Sex Hurt The First Time?

A woman who has not had intercourse before and still has her intact hymen (The hymen vaginal-flap is a thin skin that stretches across the opening of the vagina) will many times experience pain the first few times she has intercourse. Also, having anxiety about sex may also make sex more painful and may be your body's way of telling you "I'm not ready" or "I don't want to have sex with this person."
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Don't Put Viagra In His Drink!

My boyfriend is 54 and seems to have lost his self confidence after the occassional making love problem. I think he has now convinced himself he cannot achieve intimate readiness for love making. I was considering putting a viagra pill into his drink (I know he doesn't take any meds or have any health problems). The idea is to boost his confidence and self-esteem and help him overcome his percieved problem for intimate feelings. I'm trying to avoid the....
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Am I Getting To Used To Her?

My sexual performance function has diminished considerably. I have been dating the same women for a year now. She used to turn me on by looking at me and I loved it. And now when she touches me, and its nothing but dissatisfaction. She can't do anything to me to excite me for sexual arousal intimacies and she doesn't get me ready to get it on for the final satisfaction experience.

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Crush Providing Love Making Mental Urges!

Is this love making mental fantasies crush uncontrollable for unwanted consequence?
Will this only lead to a decline in a unhappy partnership and the quality of his marriage.

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Why Is There Almost No HIV-AIDS In Japan?

Total cases in twenty years amount to only 7,500 or 375 a year.

• The Japanese are the number one sex tourists to Thailand (Source: TAT - Tourist Authority of Thailand).
  
• The Japanese are the largest overseas tourists visiting Nevada Brothels and even have regular bus trips to them (Sourse: Penthouse Magazine)
  
• The Japanese travel MORE then almost any other nation.
  
• The Japanese have a past culture that accepted homosexuality (even Samari 'swung' both ways) and have a larger than average gay community.
  
• Japan has a booming sex trade (estimated at $13 billion annually (Source: - 17/03/03 -- San Francisco Chronicle)
  
• Numerous surveys demonstrate that 'most men and women in their 20s do not use condoms'. (Source: 17/03/03 -- San Francisco Chronicle)
  
• The Japanese are only different from other Asian cultures in that they have NO real poverty.
  Have you considered that poverty NOT sex is the real cause of immune suppression?
  
  NOTE: - By comparison, Cambodia, whose population is less than a tenth of Japan's, had 170,000 people living with HIV or AIDS, according to United Nations estimates. SOURCE. Reuters 19 Sept 2003 (http://www.alertnet.org/thenews/newsdesk/T130295.htm).* 'Living with HIV/AIDS' simply means that they meet the WHO/CDC Bengui definition which also fits EVERY epidemic disease in poor countries.

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